Yes Man

Well, alot of things happened these few weeks; ups and downs, expected and unexpected events. Went for movie tonight with my friz although it supposed to be a family ktv seesion. "Yes man" i didnt expect it to be more than just a comedy. It comes with the tots about saying yes to all things. It was almost at the end after the car accident that jim carrey's character came to realise... saying yes to all things at the first place was due to his promise... but yes at the later part movie was truely he feels from his heart. It also remind me of saying yes to someone impt, but i am letting go of how He can change me. Life is like a process, if only u take up the challenge, then you will know how things turn out. I hope i will be as crazy as the character to take up anything, having the tots to say yes, I can do it. It sounds like positive thinking. But it is more than this. To me, it is really be open to anything and see how things can change in life. Be it wat happen, it is wat u think that counts. I really recommend this movie to all.

Christmas has ended pretty fast, next new year is coming up. Had a great dinner both with my family and friz. Gotten alot of gifts from my family and friz. Really thanks alot. Hope you guys have enjoyed this period too.

Keep having this song in mind...

Moody

Why have life can so much? Have I change or ppl ard me have changed? I think is both. I think for me, i become more n more reserve. My walls of protection is getting thicker than i can image. I dont like to speak to ppl. Although i know it is not right, i am not doing anything about it. My attitude towards family have also changed. Am I suffering from sydnome of XXX. I felt funny in every places; be it in a gathering of friz, work place or in public. Is something wrong with me? I cant get this question out of my mind. N it is killing me badly. Who can help me? Myself?

Different looks of ME.

Well, Piglet was added in because I really like it. It is a hand-made gift from YL and some of my friz said I looks like it. Hee Hee. So wat do you think?!?

Bored!!!

You must have wondered why I blog using such a title and add this girl pic right. Well, I am just bored at worked. So decided to look thru pics in my photo and saw this little girl I took during my trip in australia. I think she is from hongkong, coz her family were speaking cantonese to her. She is very adorable that I cant keep my eyes off her. She is very cheerful throughout the trip but when she realised I try to take her pic. She gave me a sulky face but after I removed my phone, she returned to her cheerfulness. So can only blog this face of her. Hee Hee.

There was a incident happened during the trip on her n her family. The coach we took stopped for toliet break along the way. As she was sleeping, her mum decided to go toliet alone. Funny was her dad also left his seat to chat with the bus driver. In the end, she woke up. At first, she just looked around. So I thought she is fine. Then suddenly, she started crying, but in a while she stopped. It went on and off for a while . Her dad just didnt noticed at all. Well, I try to help u to help with my limited cantonese but it just didnt really helped. Finally, her dad was back and she put on her smile immediately. I realised our nature instinct is our support always come from our family members since the day we r born. :)

Nice song by 林峯 泳兒

To all my beloved friz,

light rain in suzhou

It been almost a week for me in suzhou. Had visited quite a few places in suzhou. Walking around pretty much that my feets were so tired. Yesterday was a public holiday in china, if i am not wrong, it should be the dumpling festival. 

This place is like Kaoxiong, quiet and peaceful, except the residents here travel on battery-run bicycle instead of motorcycles. Btw, i am living in the Industrial Area of Suzhou and will need to take Bus 146 to the Ancient Town of Suzhou which is the city area. Traveling there is pretty okay and it costs 1RMB (~S$0.20) for the ride. But coming back can be very, VERY packed with people. Thats why the day before my sis and I decided to walk back home, which took us about 40mins. Abit crazy right!!! Hee Hee. 

One thing I realized about Suzhou is that it is really a water-city, with bridges connecting everywhere. One can see small boats in the river touring people around to see the places. The boatman/woman sometimes sing their local country songs while rowing the boat. It is a beautiful scene. 

For pictures, can take a look on my facebook. :)

金城武新戲飾演死神

Seems like a nice movie. Another favourite acter of mine, 金城武. Put the interview from tvb channel coz cant find a chinese version for it.



Found another nice interview of him too with 吳君如 on this previous movie, Warlords.

韩剧《太王四神记》中文版

It is a new korean tv series that is going to be showed in sg soon. It is very digital and graphic. The story line is nice throughout but just dont like the ending. Like the chinese song, so decide to introduce here...

Wish all the best for those who are having exams...

Heard that NTU is starting exams this week. Though I am not having exams for this last sem, I would still like to wish people esp. my two friends who spend alot together in tw... all the best for your exams. I believe you guys will do well. :)

Pics

Pictures taken previously when we decided to have dinner at yl's place void-deck... nothing to do so started taking pictures... actually the main focus is the baby cat we found there.. took quite alot of pictures on it...

Pictures of the place where I been working for the past few months since my return from tw... Counting down to my thesis submission... 11 days more..

Sunset on my way out from TLL

Way to PGP canteen

Meilun, SP attachment student to the lab, a cheerful gal. Last fri was her last day. She is going back to school today. Hope she has a great day.

Sunset pictures

Series of mix feelings for the past few weeks

Many things had happened. Seeing the ups and downs of man. The life of man become so fragile. It helps me to evaluate into alot of things. Live for what you have been given and treasures what you have. Also learn to walk out of unhappy things and not to dwell on them. The perspective of life will be better and wider if one have taken a step back.

Today, I opened a letter on my sister behalf since she is not in singapore. I like what is written on the bookmark. It stated that "Acknowledging our weakness and accepting our limitations as loving reminders to enter into Christ's strength." I realised this is really true. I had gotten a few setback on my thesis writing for the past two weeks. And it is in those times, I really must say I need Christ's strength more than anything. Also those setback are painful and hard for me to digest. But though His strength, I will preserve on. And through that, I will be able to pray for those who also need Him.

At the same time, I would like to be thankful for the setbacks that I had faced. Through that, I would be able to improve and also make things for the better. I also realised that there is no ending to learning. The decisions we make everyday from the moment we wake up on what to eat, what to wear, what time to leave house for work and so on... will come with a result. It is from those things we learn.

I know I have become a little emotional these days. But just like to write on how I feel and hope that it will give strength to those who read it. At the same time, be reminded that you are not the only one who might have been undergo alot of pressure in life.

End with a few quotes which are also found on that bookmark:
"... For the joy of the Lord is your strength." Neh 8:10
"...[God's] strength is made perfect in weakness..." II Cor 12:9

My feeling today...

As I saw the big blue sky in front of me today, I realised I havent been relaxing my brain for the past few months. Having alot of dreams and didnt have good rest in my sleep. Feeling pretty tired sometime. I think i need a break to go to the nature or even to the beach. I will plan for one soon. Well, why havent I been relaxing myself. I think I mind too much how a person think or look at me or even how I speak. Many at times, I choose not to speak because I am afraid I might speak wrongly. But I think of it today. I shouldnt behave this way. I should try to be myself and speak of wat I think and I feel. Friends if next time u see or meet me. Do remind me of this. Hee hee. I hope I will practice wat I said. If I did speak anything not nice, pls pardon me. :)
Btw, I went for a shopping trip with my mum today. Actually, my mum had wanted to go shopping with me since my return. Hope she enjoy the trip today coz I did enjoyed mine. Ha ha. Bought a dress.

My family...

Busy making pineapple tarts on CNY eve...

My cousins, nephews and nieces from all ages... Just realised I am getting older... having so many young ones...

Happy Chinese New Year.

Today is the day where my whole family is back in Singapore for CNY. Took some pictures but havent upload coz its my sis's camera. Have a normal reunion dinner and it is cooked by my mum as usual. Afterwhich, my sis and I decided to make some pineapple tarts for ourselves. It might not be the best tarts but it is fun and nice to do together. Jia, hope next year we can do together again. HApPy ChiNeSe NeW YeAR to my family, relatives and friends.

Finally got my new alarm clock

These days... electronic stuffs had been dying on me. When I came back, my digital camera dont function. Actually, before I left for taiwan, my mp3 player and digital clock died too. Been looking for one new cheap, portable and good function clock for very long. Finally, got one yesterday while shopping in cineleisure. It is a four face clock. Wonder what it means. Okay... it is a clock that hv four functions... by turning the clock each time you can go into different functions. The four functions are clock itself, timer, alarm and temp. What more it shows two different colours. It costs $10. It is a nicely design product.

Cute baby pics..

JouRnEy to SuNTeC

These pictures were taken weeks ago. On my way to Suntec, there was heavy traffic jam so took out my hp to take pictures of Singapore. Really like Singapore though it is a really small country and pretty crowded when you walk ard or travel ard. As the bus traveled up the highway, I saw the almost completed ferry wheels and it reminded me of the time I took the ferry wheels in Dream Mall and Jian Hu Shan. It was really a nice memory. So my friends, maybe we can go when this one is opened. Hee hee.

Catch Johnny Depp's New Movie

Today, went to watch movie, Sweeney Tobb with my friend, who is back from Australia. Johnny Depp is my favourite actor, likes him since Edward Scissorshand. And hv try to catch most of the films he acted in. This current new movie is abit bloody and the ending I dont really quite like it. But still I like the movie, it is like a musical play. It is nice to hear them sing song and using songs to portay the feelings and the whole atomsphere of the movie. Think this is the second time I watched movie like a musical play. If you guys dont like a movie presents this way, my advice is u might forgo it.

How i feel today...

Coming to the end of Jan 2008. So fast one month is gone. Initially wanted to do a blog on sat or sun. But too busy with things. Hee hee. Last sun was a big event for my secondary friend Boon hui and his newly married wife Li chan. It is so nice that their relationship has began another new journery. So happy for them. Congrats and love each other all the more.

Before the wedding dinner at Rasa sentosa, I also met up with my poly friz. I saw my good friz, Corrine and her baby finally. Last year, she was still in the mother's womb and this year she is already 9 months old. She is such a smilely and cute baby. It is really God's gift. Corrine and Rayson must take good care of Amaris. Beside this, I also realised alot of my other gal friz are getting married. Think next in the line will be Valerine which is end of this year. Perhaps, Magenta is also on the way, since she n her bf are getting a new flat. It is so great to see my friends find their happiness. Hope one day I will also find mine. Hee hee. Now I got to save up so as to prepare a "big" red Ang Bao. Haha.


29/1 I went out with Ash to the Central today. She intended to buy something but yet cant find any. But on the way back on, we chat quite abit. Her new house planning, family n ... Lots and Lots more. It kept me to know that every family are different. There is nothing to compare. I also think I am blessed to be in a family of five; Dad, Mum, Sis, Bro and Myself.

After coming back from Taiwan, I realised I had grown to be independent. Also now getting use to the new lab I am doing my FYP project. To be frank, I really dont adapt well in a new environment. But one phrase comes to my mind, 改变环境会人成长。 So let me continue to grow both in characters and emotions. Let me know myself well enough before I make plans for my future.

Back for about a week in Singapore

A week passed so easy... times really fly in a flash of light...

Read my friz's blog and kind of like the thing she posted.. so i pasted it into my blog too..

《男人的标准身高应该是这样计算的：

当他拥抱自己的女人时，女人的下巴可以微微搁在他的肩膊上。这样他的身高就很标准。　

当女人投入他的怀抱里，一张脸刚好贴在他的胸前，听到他的呼吸声。如果女人的身高只能贴着他的横隔膜，这个男人的身高就不合标准

当女人痛恨他，想掴他一巴掌时，手不用举得太高，以至那一巴不够重。

当女人用膝盖撞他时，能够撞到他的肚或腰，而不是要害。随时被女人撞中要害的男人，一定是本身身高不合标准。他的高度，刚好要令女人微微抬头仰望他，而不会看到他头顶的白发或秃头。当他蹲下来的时候，刚好可以让女人踏在他的肩膊上，攀过一堵墙。　　

当女人受到伤害，需要保护时，男人忽尔变得很高大，能够给她安全感，能够站在她前面保护她。如果无法在女人最需要他的时候变得高大，这种男人就太矮了。　

有了孩子之后，男人忽尔变得矮小，跟孩子的高度一样，和他一起在地上爬行。为了家人的幸福，他可以缩小自己。》

以上那段文章是我最喜欢的作家-张小娴写的一篇散文，也是她众多作品中我最有印象的一个。我一向很执着于男人的身高，喜欢的男生都不矮。

Obtained the above paragraph from Jia. I agree with her. In fact, a guy's height is the first thing that attracted me to look at. Next, make a guess wat I will see. Will let you guys know on my next blog. But I believe many of my friz will know wat I look at next.

Mon (14/1): First person I met was my one of my poly good friz, Annabella. We met in NUS, coz currently I am attached to TLL lab which is in NUS for my FYP. She is working there so met her for lunch. Anyway, thanks to her I located TLL easily.

In evening, my good friz, Ash, dropped by my place to see me. Didnt really update much. Just passed her the gifts I bought her. Hee hee. Anyway, we planned to meet on fri again with some other friz too.

Tue (15/1): Today went back to NTU to attend the Conduct briefing. As planned earlier in taiwan, we had a small gathering after taiwan trip. Met up Ivy, Weibin and Taichong in NIE for our lunch as we missed the noodles in NIE. Hee hee. Later, we updated something that happened on Mon. It seemed as though we had not been together for quite long, which in fact, it is only one or two days only. Cannot blame us as we had been together for the past 5 months plus.

Wed and Thur: Back to lab again. I did quite a few mistakes but dont feel like mentioning it so let me just forget it and get on with it.

Friday (18/1): I met up with my good friends, Ash and Esther at Vivo City as it is easlier for me to go there after work. We had our dinner at Harbourfront food court. Had my favourite beef noodles. Although taiwan also has beef noodles, they cook it differently. Here they used thick mee hoon which I prefer more. We then went to shop around but I dont dare to see much as I realised my cupboard cant put in anymore clothes. So better control. Next, we went to sit by the bench outside. Saw the construction at sentosa for the IR thing. We chat for quite long. To be frank, it was only this time I felt more comfortable. Maybe didnt meet for quite long, so it took me a while to mix in. Haha. I am a person dont adapt well. So dont be too surprized.

Took pics on bus on our way home... Ash and myself

Sat (19/1): I met up with other good friends, Airu, Cailing and Yiling. First, Airu and I went to eat sushi in MS, coz I missed alot. Hee hee. It is nice I had my steam egg finally. Felt so great. "Ohiishi" The other thing that I will never missed is the lobster salad sushi. Really had my fill. Cailing joined us after she and her bf went to the carreer fair in suntec. With them, we went to another Jap. restaurant in Citylink. It is a newly opened restaurant and they are selling Jap. spagetti. Afterwhich, we went back to Hg mall to buy donuts to eat. N sat in mac to wait for Yiling to join us. Had curly fries too. It was nice. The donuts were also good. Had a long chat there. Did a few IQ games and also try to plan for our trips to Australia to go for Jia's graduation in July.

Waiting for Ru to pick me up to go Ang Mo Kio Mrt station to take train. So took a few pics along the way.

Passed Airu her present, see her happy expression. So glad she likes it.

Now enjoying my food... Ling and I at Hg mall Mac. The new donut shop outside Hg mall. Nice looking right and not too big to make one too full.

Silly drawing by my friends while we are chatting. It is a combine of keroppi, caterpiller, butterfly and... see wat u can image...

Yilng and Me...

Although I was not away for very long, it is really good to meet up with them to know how they are getting on. Thank you, my lovely friends.

I also like to thank my family members for their loves and support. Also my mum now especially for providing me with alot of nice food. Think I will put on weight again. I need to control after this week. Need to keep myself in good state as my graduation is this year too. Haha.

P.S.: I think I got addicted in taking pics in taiwan so keep taking pics when I go out now. Also self taking I have become prof. Haha.

Today is the forth day since my return from taiwan

Still remember the first day I reached Taipei, I was down with flu and kept thinking why did I come all the way for sufferings where I can enjoy my life in Singapore. What could be more happening is to meet with earthquake. Then one week later, we (Ivy and myself) headed down to Kaohsiung for our last semester of studies. Then came to first know a Taiwan friz called Melon, would like to thank him for helping us to find the way to the international villa, taking the keys for us and carrying our luaggages.

The most interesting thing is to get to know my two 学弟 (Bin and Chong) from SBS. Life in NSYSU and taiwan would not be complete without you guys and also my lovely and supportive, Ivy. I missed the time where we go to school together, walking up and down the hills, traveling on the school bus... I missed the time where we could have our lunch in the 老地方 in front of our school and also going to Lin Ma Ma together for dinner.

当时的不习惯， 到如今的不舍得。 但我们还是回到新加坡，开始了我们忙碌的生活。

To Bin and Chong, all the best for your studies. I believe you guys will score good results. But dont study too hard, must learn to enjoy your lives too.

To Ivy, all the best for your FYP. Too bad we are not working very near. But I believe you will mix in well. I think I am supposed to be worried for myself more. ha ha.

Lastly, thanks for the accompany for the past 5 months or so. It has been great. To the guys, thanks for helping us with the luggages and staying up late with us. To Ivy, I missed your company in the room. Nowadays, I am more consistent to put moisture before I go to bed. Haha. I think it will take a while for me to adapt back to the life in Singapore again. Hope I will do fine.

Need to go to bed alr. Tata. I will try to update more since now cannot use weibin's blog as reference alr. Hee hee. Okay. Sweet dreams to all who see this blog.